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- Cov kwv tij thiab cov muam tshiab
- The Stepchild tsis lees paub lawv niam thiab txiv tshiab
- Tus txiv tshiab tsis kam tso lawv niam lawv txiv pov tseg
- Koj yuav tau xaiv qhov kev xaiv
- Tsis txhob ua rau tsev neeg tsis sib haum xeeb nrog cov teeb meem hauv tsev neeg sib xyaw
Tsev neeg muaj zog ntawm cov niam txiv tshiab uas tau sib yuav nrog cov menyuam tshiab yog qhov sib txawv ntau los ntawm cov ntsiab lus ib txwm muaj ntawm cov niam txiv tshiab. Cov menyuam yaus tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov menyuam dhau los thiab ua ntej hnub nyoog kawm ntawv theem siab yuav pom qhov xwm txheej tsis meej pem.
Cov neeg laus uas yuav poj niam nrog tus menyuam, pom tseeb tias lawv ua dab tsi. Tsawg kawg peb vam tias lawv ua. Cov menyuam yaus, tshwj xeeb yog menyuam yaus, tsis nkag siab qhov xwm txheej no. Qhov ntawd tuaj yeem ua rau nyuaj.
Nov yog cov teeb meem me nyuam yaus thiab yuav ua li cas koj tuaj yeem pab lawv kho nws
Cov kwv tij thiab cov muam tshiab
Cov menyuam yaus muaj cov kwvtij nkauj muam tshiab yog khoom plig.
Tab sis tam sim ntawd muaj cov me nyuam mos liab tuaj yeem ua rau lawv poob siab. Tshwj tsis yog tias lawv siv sijhawm ntau nyob ua ke thaum nkawm niam txiv tseem tab tom sib tham, tsis txhob poob siab yog tias ib lossis tag nrho cov menyuam sib tw tsis lees paub ib leeg.
Qhov no tsis yog qhov xwm txheej ib txwm, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog yog tias menyuam yaus siv sijhawm nyob ua ke thaum ob niam txiv tseem tab tom sib tham. Tab sis txij li thaum koj nyob ntawm no, tej zaum koj yuav xav tau lossis tab tom ntsib lwm qhov kawg ntawm tus pas.
Tsuas yog menyuam yaus ntawm niam txiv ib leeg tau siv los ua kom tau mloog zoo ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv. Lawv tsis siv los qhia ib yam dab tsi rau leej twg. Txhua yam los ntawm khoom noj khoom haus, khoom ua si, rau niam txiv nws tus kheej, Nws nkag siab tias lawv yuav xav tias ua siab phem rau leej twg uas tam sim ntawd muaj txoj cai rau tus menyuam ntawd xav txog lawv lub ntiaj teb.
Ob leeg niam txiv, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog ib qho kev lom neeg yuav tsum tau khov kho hauv kev qhia me nyuam txog kev tsim txiaj ntawm kev sib koom. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yog kev qhia lub neej uas lawv yuav tsum tau kawm tsis yog vim lawv cov nus muag tshiab, tab sis rau lawv tus kheej, thaum lawv tawm mus rau ntiaj teb.
Kev sib qhia, ua siab ntev, thiab ua siab ntev nrog lwm tus yog qhov tsim txiaj uas tib neeg yuav xav tau txawm tias thaum lawv dhau los ua neeg laus. Tam sim no yog lub sijhawm zoo li txhua yam, qhia thiab siv nws.
The Stepchild tsis lees paub lawv niam thiab txiv tshiab
Nov yog qhov teeb meem nyuaj, thiab yuav daws nws li cas yog nyob ntawm hnub nyoog thiab qhov laj thawj ntawm tus menyuam. Zoo li ua npaws, qhov no yog ib yam uas yuav tsum tau tso cai rau nws khiav thiab ua siab ntev thaum txo cov tsos mob.
Muaj ntau qhov laj thawj yog vim li cas tus menyuam thiaj tsis lees yuav tus niam txiv tshiab. Feem ntau ntawm cov uas tsis tuaj yeem daws tau lossis tsis muaj peev xwm daws tau ncaj qha. Qee qhov piv txwv yog:
- Lawv xav kom lawv niam thiab txiv rov qab los ua ke
- Lawv muaj qhov tsis txaus ntseeg tsis zoo rau tus niam txiv tshiab
- Lawv tsis xav qhia (tshwj xeeb yog chav pw) nrog tus niam txiv tshiab
- Kev khib
- Lawv zoo siab nrog qhov xwm txheej tam sim no thiab "tus neeg" no tau rhuav tshem nws
Muab cov piv txwv saum toj no, tsis muaj tshuaj ntsiav ua khawv koob uas tuaj yeem daws ib qho ntawm cov teeb meem uas tus menyuam ntseeg tias yog vim li cas lawv thiaj tsis lees paub tus niam txiv tshiab. Yog tias koj txiav txim siab tsuas yog qhov pom ntawm tus menyuam -uas yog lawv feem ntau xav li cas, tom qab ntawd tag nrho cov laj thawj no nkag siab thiab tsim nyog, txawm tias zoo li tsis ncaj ncees.
Hauv tus neeg laus qhov kev xav, txhua yam nws txhais tau tias tus menyuam yuav tsum tau kho raws li koj lub siab nyiam. Tom qab tag nrho, yog tias tus menyuam tsis lees paub tus niam txiv tshiab thiab koj tau mus tom ntej thiab sib yuav lawv lawm, peb yuav hu dab tsi ntxiv uas tsis yog kev xav qia dub.
Vim tias nws yog cov neeg laus uas tau xaiv los tsim qhov xwm txheej tsis sib xws, nws yog nyob ntawm ob niam txiv yuav tsum ua siab ntev thiab kov yeej cov kev tsis ncaj ncees no dhau sijhawm. Tsis txhob them nyiaj ntau dhau ntawm qhov ua txhaum. Tsuas yog kho tus menyuam zoo li koj xav tau rau koj tus kheej, thiab dhau sijhawm, menyuam yuav hloov lawv lub siab. Vam thiab cia siab.
Tus txiv tshiab tsis kam tso lawv niam lawv txiv pov tseg
Nws yooj yim kom paub yog tias qhov no yog ua rau koj cov menyuam muaj teeb meem. Koj yuav hnov "kuv niam thiab txiv lub khob noom cookie zoo dua li koj li" ntau heev. Yog tias qhov no yog qhov teeb meem hauv paus uas koj muaj nrog koj tus tub xeeb ntxwv, tom qab ntawd nws tuaj yeem tshwm sim hauv ntau txoj kev sib txawv.
- Tsis kam noj cov zaub mov uas koj tau npaj
- Tsis mloog koj cov lus qhia lossis kev qhia
- Tsis quav ntsej koj
- Tas li xav mus rau lawv lwm tus niam txiv lom
- Kev poob siab thaum lawv yuav tsum rov qab los tsev
Tsis txhob saib qhov tsis sib haum ntawm niam txiv thiab tus menyuam.
Muaj ib rooj plaub uas menyuam yaus loj hlob nyob hauv tsev ntawm tus niam txiv tshiab, uas tau them nyiaj rau lawv txoj kev kawm, thiab tus menyuam nyob hauv tsev txog thaum lawv tab tom yuav txiv. Tus niam txiv tshiab tseem tsis txaus siab rau txhua lub sijhawm. Tus txiv "tiag" tsuas yog tau tshwm sim ib zaug hauv lub hli xiav thiab tus menyuam txaus siab rau qhov txiv muaj tiag. Zaj dab neeg xaus nrog tus niam txiv tshiab tsis kam them nyiaj rau lub tshoob thiab ncaws tawm txhua tus. Dab neeg tseeb.
Koj yuav tau xaiv qhov kev xaiv
Yog tias tsis muaj kev ntxub ntxaug ntawm koj tus khub tshiab thiab lawv tus khub yav dhau los thiab tus menyuam tseem "ncaj ncees" rau lawv niam txiv "tiag", tom qab ntawd koj yuav tsum tau xaiv.
Koj puas xav tias koj txoj kev sib raug zoo tam sim no tsim nyog nqos koj txoj kev khav theeb thiab ua tub rog, lossis koj puas kam kos kab ib qho ntawm qhov kev pheej hmoo ntawm kev cais koj tsev neeg tshiab? Ob qho kev xaiv yog qhov zoo, tsuas yog lub sijhawm yuav qhia yog tias koj tau xaiv qhov yog.
Thaum kawg, cov menyuam tshiab tsuas yog menyuam yaus. Lawv yuav ua zoo li menyuam yaus, xav zoo li menyuam yaus, thiab ua zoo li menyuam yaus. Raws li tus neeg laus, nws yog nyob ntawm koj los ua haujlwm, thiab ua haujlwm hnyav ntawm tsev neeg uas koj tau xaiv los tsim. Qhov ntawd suav nrog txhua tus menyuam yaus thiab suav nrog koj tus khub yav dhau los, koj tus qub, thiab lawv cov txheeb ze.
Cov menyuam yaus yog qia dub thiab tsis paub zoo dua, cov neeg laus tsis muaj kev zam txim, hmoov tsis zoo, txawm tias cov neeg laus muaj qhov kev cia siab tsis tseeb rau tsev neeg sib xyaw.
Tsis txhob ua rau tsev neeg tsis sib haum xeeb nrog cov teeb meem hauv tsev neeg sib xyaw
Muaj kev sab laj rau cov teeb meem hauv tsev neeg sib xyaw. Feem ntau cov teeb meem hauv tsev neeg tau ploj mus tom qab ua siab ntev thiab muaj kev hlub ntau ntawm ob niam txiv kom txog thaum cov menyuam lees txais tsev neeg tshiab ua lawv tus kheej. Nco ntsoov tias koj tsis yuam kev hauv tsev neeg ib txwm tsis sib haum nrog cov teeb meem hauv tsev neeg sib xyaw. Muaj teeb meem nrog menyuam yaus tshwm sim txawm tias hauv tsev neeg ib txwm muaj.
Thaum koj thiab koj tus khub tshiab muaj menyuam yaus ntawm koj tus kheej, nws yuav qhib tag nrho cov muaj peev xwm ntawm cua nab thiab rov pib dua cov teeb meem ib zaug ntxiv. Los yog nws tuaj yeem yog khoom plig tam sim no uas koj tsev neeg sib xyaw muaj cov ntshav sib koom ua ke thiab coj txhua tus tuaj ua ke. Nws yog teeb meem ntawm hmoov thiab tus yam ntxwv ntawm koj cov menyuam tshiab. Txawm li cas los xij, txhua tsev neeg, sib xyaw lossis lwm yam hla txoj kev pob zeb.
Muaj teeb meem me nyuam yaus tsuas yog txhais tau tias koj tsev neeg tau pib ua tsis yog lawm. Nws nyob ntawm koj thiab koj tus txij nkawm kom paub tseeb tias txhua yam tau zoo dua los ntawm qhov ntawd.