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- Qhov tseeb txog liab qab vs lub neej tiag tiag uas yuav tsum pab ib qho nrog kev saib duab liab qab
- 1.Safe to taub
- 2. Tsis muaj dab tsi hauv porn piv nrog kev sib deev tiag tiag
- Puas yog porn tsis zoo lossis zoo?
Yog tias koj sib sau ua ke pab pawg kaum (10) tus neeg thiab nug lawv cov lus nug hnub nyoog- Puas yog porn tsis zoo lossis zoo? Koj yuav xav tsis thoob ntawm cov lus teb koj yuav tau txais.
Vim li cas? Kev sib faib ntawm kev xam pom txog kev saib duab liab qab tsuas yog loj heev thiab nws txawm tias tsis zoo nrog kev tshawb fawb tshawb fawb txhawb nqa ob sab ntawm kev faib.
Tsis hais txog kev ntseeg dab tsi, qee tus neeg thov tias porn yog qhov zoo rau cov laj thawj hauv qab no thiab tej zaum tseem yuav ntau dua -
- Nws tuaj yeem yog cov cuab yeej kawm paub paub txog koj nyiam thiab tsis nyiam txog kev sib deev
- Qee tus khub tau ua tiav kev siv porn los pab txhawb lawv txoj kev sib deev hauv txoj kev zoo siab
- Porn tuaj yeem yog txhais tau tias txo kev ntxhov siab, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum tsis muaj tus hlub nyob ib puag ncig
- Qee tus hais tias nws muaj kev noj qab haus huv, tau txais kev txhawb siab los ntawm kev tshawb fawb los ntawm Gert Martin Hald thiab Neil M. Malamuth hauv xyoo 2008
- Nws tuaj yeem txhawb koj txoj kev sib deev tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum saib porn nrog koj tus khub
- Nws tuaj yeem txhawb libido, nyeem los ntawm kev kawm tiav xyoo 2015 los ntawm University of California
Tseem, tib lub sijhawm, cov uas tawm tsam porn qhia tias porn yog teeb meem rau, ntawm lwm qhov laj thawj, hauv qab no -
- Cuam tshuam rau kev saib tus kheej ntawm cov poj niam uas lawv koom nrog saib porn, yam tsawg kawg raws li kev tshawb fawb los ntawm Destin Steward ntawm University of Florida
- Tsis zoo cuam tshuam rau kev sib raug zoo los ntawm kev txo qis kev txaus siab ntawm kev sib deev thiab ua rau muaj feem sib nrauj. Qhov no tau txhawb nqa los ntawm txoj kev tshawb fawb tau hais hauv daim ntawv tshawb fawb ntawm Samuel L. Perry, Tsev Kawm Qib Siab Oklahoma, lub npe - 'Puas Yog Saib Cov Duab Liab Qab Txo Kev Ua Txij Nkawm Zoo Tshaj Plaws? Pov thawj los ntawm Cov Ntaub Ntawv Ntev '
- Cuam tshuam rau kev sib deev los ntawm kev ua rau muaj kev pheej hmoo ntawm kev ua kom tsis muaj zog erectile kawg, ncua ejaculation thiab txawm tias tsis muaj peev xwm mus txog orgasm (anorgasmia)
- Porn hloov lub hlwb. Qhov ntawd, saib cov ntaub ntawv duab liab qab ua rau ib tus neeg lub hlwb muaj tshuaj xws li dopamine uas zoo li yuav tsim kev vam khom ntawm qhov kev tsim no thiab teeb tsa rau yam khoom hnyav dua, ua rau muaj kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj.
- Qee leej hais tias liab qab tua kev hlub. Nws ua rau cov txiv neej uas saib liab qab xav tias tus txiv neej tsawg dua li cov uas tsis tau pom dua, thiab tom qab saib liab qab, ib tus yuav yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj ntawm tus khub lub ntsej muag, qhia txog kev hlub, kev sib deev, thiab xav paub txog kev sib deev.
- Tias cov neeg quav yeeb quav tshuaj lossis saib duab liab qab ntau dhau ua rau txo qis kev sib deev nrog tib tus khub thiab yuav tsum nrhiav cov phooj ywg sib txawv los txuas ntxiv lawv kev npau taws. Nov yog qhov hu ua Coolidge Effect, raws li kev tshawb fawb los ntawm Reddit Community (NoFap).
Yog li, nrog txhua qhov kev xav sib txawv ntawm porn, qhov twg yog qhov tseeb tiag? Puas yog porn tsis zoo? Puas yog porn ua teeb meem raws li qee qhov qhia txog nws? Lossis puas yog qhov zoo?
Cov lus teb yog ob npaug thiab nyob ntawm ntau yam. Tab sis, cov lus nug tiag tiag uas tib neeg yuav tsum tau nug lawv tus kheej yog dab tsi yog saib porn ua rau lawv thiab seb lawv puas ua tau zoo nrog nws lossis tsis yog. Kuj tseem muaj lwm pab pawg ntawm cov neeg uas tau pom porn rau qee lub sijhawm thiab tsis tau raug kev txom nyem ib qho twg tabsis tawm tsam porn.
Txawm hais tias muaj kev cuam tshuam los ntawm kev tshawb fawb lossis tsis yog, yog tias qhov cuam tshuam cuam tshuam rau ib tus neeg lub neej thiab nws lossis nws pom nws nyuaj nyob nrog nws, tom qab ntawd nws feem ntau yuav nthuav tawm cov lus teb-porn yog teeb meem.
Ntawm qhov rov qab, yog tias ib tus siv liab qab los ua kom lawv lub neej zoo dua, tom qab ntawd lawv yuav muaj peev xwm tiv thaiv nws thiab dhau los ua nws tus sawv cev. Txawm li cas los xij, muaj qee qhov hauv paus ntsiab lus, cov hauv paus ntsiab lus thiab qhov tseeb uas ib tus xav tau nkag siab thiab txaus siab seb lawv puas yog porn-pro lossis anti-porn.
Cov no yog cov lus tseeb hais txog liab qab vs xwm txheej ntawm lub neej tiag tiag uas yog qhov tseem ceeb hauv kev pab txiav txim siab seb porn puas zoo rau lawv lossis teeb meem.
Qhov tseeb txog liab qab vs lub neej tiag tiag uas yuav tsum pab ib qho nrog kev saib duab liab qab
1.Safe to taub
nws muaj kev nyab xeeb kom nkag siab tias porn tsis muaj dab tsi zoo li koj yuav koom nrog tus poj niam tiag tiag lossis hauv kev sib raug zoo. Nws tseem thov rau txiv neej rau qhov laj thawj sib txawv.
Porn, hais qhov tsawg tshaj plaws, tau tsim nyob ib puag ncig ntau yam thiab siv zog thiab tau npaj los muab ib ntus tab sis tseem ceeb ntawm adrenaline thiab dopamine raws li cov yeeb yaj kiab yuav ua.
Hauv lub neej tiag tiag, kev sib raug zoo xav tau qee qib kev ntseeg siab, sib xws thiab txhawb kev xav. Txawm hais tias koj tuaj yeem tswj kom muaj kev sib deev kub (raws li tau piav qhia hauv cov yeeb yaj kiab liab qab) lossis tsis yog, muaj qhov xav tau zoo kom nkag siab tias thaum nyob hauv kev sib raug zoo tiag tiag, ib txwm muaj lwm tus neeg npaj los hlub koj tsuas yog koj yog thiab tseem yuav nyob ntawd rau koj.
Raws li qhov tshwm sim, ib tus yuav tsum tsis txhob sib piv lawv tus kheej rau porn thiab xav tias tsis ntseeg lossis muaj kev ntseeg tus kheej qis.
2. Tsis muaj dab tsi hauv porn piv nrog kev sib deev tiag tiag
Tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi hauv liab qab uas sib piv txhais tes nrog kev sib deev hauv lub neej tiag.
Porn piav qhia txhua tus neeg koom nrog kom ua tiav orgasms uas yog dag. Tsis tas li, yeeb yaj kiab duab liab qab nyob ntev dua li kev sib deev lub neej tiag. Cov neeg tsim duab liab qab xav kom koj ntseeg tias txhua qhov kev sib deev ua rau muaj kev zoo siab xaus.
Hauv lub neej tiag tiag, qee qhov xaus rau kev npaj cev xeeb tub thiab STIs.
Yog li, tsis muaj dab tsi siv porn yuav tsum yog lub hauv paus tus saib nkag siab qhov sib txawv ntawm kev sib deev lub neej tiag thiab kev sib deev hauv porn.
Puas yog porn tsis zoo lossis zoo?
Puas yog porn tsis zoo? Zoo, tam sim no koj muaj lus hais thiab koj muaj cai tau txais nws.
Tab sis, hauv kev teeb tsa kev sib yuav, txhua qhov kev txiav txim siab uas tuaj yeem tshwm sim rau ib tus khub yuav tsum tau tham, thiab txiav txim siab txog.
Yuav tsum tsis muaj kev yuam. Yog tias ib tus koom nrog cuam tshuam los ntawm kev saib duab liab qab thiab tsis tuaj yeem daws sab hauv, nws raug nquahu kom nrhiav kev pab.