Zoo Siab
- Scenario Synopsis
- Qhov sib txawv ntawm kev saib xyuas thiab saib xyuas ntawm peb cov neeg hlub
- Cov kauj ruam rau kev saib xyuas
- Kev sib raug zoo yog kev lag luam nyuaj
Cov kab lus qub TLC lossis Kev Nyuaj Siab thiab Kev Saib Xyuas tau siv ntau zaus. Tab sis hauv peb lub neej txhua hnub, raws li kev txawj ua lub neej, peb siv nws ntau npaum li cas? Siv qhov xwm txheej hauv qab no:
Nws yog 10:00 teev tsaus ntuj rau hnub Sunday yav tsaus ntuj. Kate tau qaug zog thiab ntxhov siab. "Kuv sim hnyav heev" nws hais rau nws tus txiv Vince, uas twb tau pw lawm, npaj pw tsaug zog. "Zib ntab, koj yuav tsum tau so. Cov menyuam nyob zoo ”nws hais. "So kom txaus?" nws hais tias, "Koj tsis paub dab tsi tshwm sim? Nathan npau taws heev rau kuv uas nws thawb nws lub tsheb kauj vab nyob nruab nrab ntawm txoj kev thiab ncaws nws. Kuv tsis ua haujlwm zoo li niam ". Nws hais hauv lub suab tu siab. "Zoo, koj tau nqis los me ntsis nyuaj rau nws nrog nws lub tsheb kauj vab maneuvering" nws hais. "Nws tsis kam sim, Kuv xav tias nws xav tau kev thawb me ntsis. Koj tsis nkag siab; Koj lub siab nyob lwm qhov. Koj tuaj yeem pab kuv paub koj paub. Cov menyuam tsis yog tsob ntoo; Lawv tsis loj hlob ntawm lawv tus kheej. Lawv muaj kev xav thiab xav tau kev saib xyuas mob siab rau. " Nws hais raws li nws lub suab tu siab tau hloov mus ua lub suab npau npau. “Yog, kuv nkag siab. Koj yuav hais li cas? Kuv ua haujlwm tag nrho cov sijhawm no, yog li peb tuaj yeem muaj lub neej zoo dua. " Nws teb. Tom qab ntawd nws ua raws li hais tias "Zib ntab, Kuv nkees, thiab kuv yuav tsum tau mus pw. Kuv tsis xav nkag mus rau ib yam dab tsi tam sim no ”. Nov yog thaum nws npau taws heev thiab tshuab. "Koj nkees? Koj? Koj tau saib TV thaum kuv tab tom ua noj, tu thiab ua khaub ncaws txhua tag kis. Tom qab ntawd caij tsheb kauj vab, koj tau pw zoo 1 teev, thaum kuv tab tom xav txog qhov tshwm sim ntawm kev caij tsheb kauj vab! Kuv tau ua txhua yam koj hais kom kuv ua hnub no. Koj xa kuv tawm cua mus rau lub tsheb kauj vab, taug kev tus dev, ua zaub xam lav, thiab kuv tau ua. Yog tias koj xav tau kev pab ntxiv, koj tuaj yeem tsuas yog nug. Kuv yuav tsum nug txhua yam, puas yog? Koj tsis tuaj yeem siv koj tus kheej kev txiav txim, puas yog? Vajtswv txwv, koj tso koj tus kheej tawm me ntsis rau hnub so ”.
Tig nws nraub qaum thaum nws pw hauv txaj, nws hais tias "Kuv yuav mus pw, hmo ntuj, kuv hlub koj". Nws sawv los ntawm lub txaj, tuav nws lub hauv ncoo thiab tawm hauv chav. "Kuv tsis ntseeg tias koj tuaj yeem pw zoo li ntawd thaum koj paub tias kuv chim siab li no".
Scenario Synopsis
Dab tsi tshwm sim ntawm no? Puas yog Vince tag nrho Jerk? Puas yog Kate yog poj huab tais ua yeeb yam thiab xav tau tus poj niam? Tsis yog. Lawv yog ob tus neeg zoo heev. Peb paub vim tias peb tau ntsib lawv hauv kev sib tham ob peb zaug. Lawv npau taws heev hauv kev hlub thiab muaj kev sib yuav zoo siab ntau lub sijhawm. Zoo, qhov no yog piv txwv ntawm qhov sib txawv ntawm txiv neej thiab poj niam zoo li cas hlub thiab txaus siab. Kate poob siab rau qhov tshwm sim ua ntej hnub nrog cov menyuam. Thaum nws tig mus rau Vince, nws tab tom saib nws los saib xyuas nws txoj kev xav; tej zaum muab nws qhov kev lees paub tias nws yog niam zoo. Tias cov menyuam paub tias nws hlub lawv, tias nws ua ntau heev thiab Nathan yuav tsis nco qab tias nws qw rau nws. Nws tsis yog qhov uas Vince hais tias tsis muaj qhov siv tau, tab sis theej tias Kate xav tau qee yam sib txawv ntawm lub sijhawm ntawd.
Raws li Kate tau tham nrog Nathan, txawm tias lig rau hnub ntawd, nws tab tom tshuaj xyuas nws kom pab nws nqig. Nws tau nug yam tsis muaj lus hais tias nws xav tau nws txoj kev txhawb siab. Nws, ntawm qhov tod tes, tau xav tias nws tau tawm tsam nws thiab qhia tias nws ua tsis tau txaus. Yog li nws tau teb nrog cov lus teb tiv thaiv thiab piav qhia nws cov sijhawm ua haujlwm thiab lwm yam Vim li cas lawv qhov kev tshuaj xyuas ntawm qhov xwm txheej ua rau muaj txiaj ntsig tsis zoo?
Qhov sib txawv ntawm kev saib xyuas thiab saib xyuas ntawm peb cov neeg hlub
- Kev saib xyuas ib tus neeg hlub, tuaj yeem hais tawm los ntawm kev ua siab zoo xws li ntxuav lub tsheb, ua zaub mov, ywg dej rau cov nyom, ua zaub mov, thiab lwm yam "ua siab zoo". Ua nyiaj, thiab txhawb nqa nyiaj txiag rau lwm tus, poob rau hauv pawg no ib yam.
- Kev saib xyuas ntawm peb cov neeg hlub tsis tas yuav yog kev nqis tes ua, tab sis yog kev ua tib zoo xav thiab xav tau tus txheej txheem kev xav thiab qhia kev lees paub. Nyob rau lub sijhawm tam sim no, hwm lawv lub sijhawm, kev ceev ntiag tug, kev txwv, thiab kev xav.
Dab tsi tshwm sim ntawm khub niam txiv, thiab ntau ntxiv hauv kev sib yuav vim tias kev cia siab rau kev sib yuav yog siab dua lwm hom kev sib raug zoo tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum muaj menyuam yaus koom nrog, ob niam txiv rov qab mus rau lawv ego-centric tus kheej. Nov yog ib feem ntawm tus kheej uas yog "kuv tsom", tsis yooj yim thiab txiav txim siab. Qhov no ntawm tus kheej, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog nyob rau lub sijhawm muaj kev ntxhov siab, qhov twg ib tus tuaj yeem ua rau tus kheej tseem ceeb, tuaj yeem ua haujlwm rau tus kheej, rau txim rau tus kheej thiab tsis meej pem. Nws tuaj yeem ua rau hnyav, tsis muaj tseeb, tsis zoo, thiab/lossis tswj hwm.
Hauv kuv qhov kev xyaum, Kuv ib txwm caw kuv cov khub niam txiv los nrhiav qhov zais zais. Cov ntsiab lus tuaj yeem yog lo lus, lub cev, lossis sijhawm siv. Hauv qhov piv txwv saum toj no, tag nrho peb lub ntsiab lus tau cim los ntawm Kate. Ob lo lus qhia los ntawm Kate yog "Kuv sim hnyav" thiab "koj tsis nkag siab". Tsis tas li, dhau los ntawm lub sijhawm siv los ntawm Vince, thiab ua tim khawv txog qhov tshwm sim, nws tau nkag siab qhov tseeb tias Kate tuaj yeem ua txhaum. Txawm hais tias nyob rau saum npoo, nws yuav zoo li Kate tau tawm tsam Vince thaum nws hais tias "koj tsis nkag siab", nws tau nug nws kom nkag siab txog nws qhov xwm txheej. Nws hloov pauv, teb los ntawm kev hais daws "Koj tsuas yog xav so" uas tuaj yeem hla mus raws li kev tshaj tawm yog tias tsis txhawb nqa.
Dab tsi yuav zoo dua yog rau nws kom ncav tes, tuav nws txhais tes, lossis muab nws puag thiab hais, qee yam hauv kab ntawm "koj sim ua siab hlub" lossis "zib ntab, koj tsis xav tias yuav zoo tag nrho" lossis "Sweetie, thov tsis txhob nyuaj rau koj tus kheej, koj zoo heev".
Ntawm qhov tod tes, yuav ua li cas Kate tau ua tiav, es tsis txhob sim nplij nws tus txiv ntawm qhov nws tau hais tias yog lub sijhawm tsis raug? Nws yog qhov pom tseeb tias ob tus tib neeg no "Saib Xyuas" ib leeg. Tab sis lawv puas tau "saib xyuas" ib leeg. Kate tuaj yeem hwm Vince tus ciam teb. Nws tuaj yeem ntseeg qhov tseeb tias nws tsis yog los ntawm qhov chaw tsis saib xyuas, tab sis yog qhov chaw nyab xeeb. Vince tuaj yeem ua tiav qhov ntsuas nrawm ntawm nws cov kev xav hauv lub siab thiab paub tias nws nkees dhau los mloog thiab yog li ntawd, txhawm rau zam kev tsis sib haum xeeb, yog tias nws tau hais qhov tsis raug, nws tau taug txoj kev tsis muaj kev tiv thaiv tsawg kawg thiab hais tias "Kuv xav tau tsaug zog. " Qhov no yog, tau kawg, tsis paub lossis paub tias nws muaj qhov kev xaiv tham txog saum toj no, uas tsis siv sijhawm ntau dhau.
Cov kauj ruam rau kev saib xyuas
- Ib txwm coj cov lus xav ntawm koj nyob qhov twg thiab lwm tus neeg nyob qhov twg ua ntej pib Dialogue
- Teem lub hom phiaj thiab xav txog lub zeem muag rau yam koj tab tom nrhiav hauv kev pib sib tham
- Sib tham seb lub hom phiaj twg yog rau koj tus khub kom meej
- Tos thiab saib seb puas muaj qhov sib xws hauv cov hom phiaj yam tsis xav tau
- Txais yuav ntau dua li quab yuam kev daws teeb meem
Thaum kawg, cia peb rov ua dua qhov uas tuaj yeem tshwm sim ntawm Kate thiab Vince. Yog tias Kate tau ua tiav qib 3 ntau dua li xav tias Vince tuaj yeem nyeem cov lus qhia, nws yuav muaj peev xwm tau txais kev txhawb nqa uas nws cia siab rau. Ntawm qhov tod tes, yog tias Vince yuav tau xyaum ua ntu 1, nws yuav muaj peev xwm pom tias yam uas Kate tab tom nrhiav tsis yog kev tshuaj xyuas ntawm yam uas tau tshwm sim, tab sis yog qhov ua kom ntseeg tau.
Kev sib raug zoo yog kev lag luam nyuaj
Coob leej xav tias Kev Hlub txhais tau tias yog txhua tus paub. Qhov ntawd tsis yog kev hlub; Nws yog hmoov zoo. Kev hlub yuav tsum ua siab ntev, thiab nkag siab, thiab txo hwj chim thiab xyaum ua txhua yam saum toj no. Qhov sib txawv ntawm Kev Saib Xyuas thiab Kev Saib Xyuas ntawm peb cov neeg hlub, pab peb nyob hauv qhov chaw, thiab txo hwj chim thaum lub sijhawm uas peb ib txwm ua rau lub siab xav ua tus kheej thiab teeb tsa peb tus kheej rau qhov kev cia siab thiab tsis xav tsis zoo tsis zoo. Nws Tsis Yog Kev Hlub. Nws tsis yog Tender Care. Nws yog Tender Love and Care. Peb yuav tsum tau saib xyuas peb tus kheej cov kev xav tau ua ntej, thiab tom qab ntawd yog tus tshaj tawm rau kev sib tham nrog lawv kom meej meej rau peb cov koom tes, lossis tseem ceeb rau lwm tus thiab cia lawv muaj kev nyab xeeb hauv kev ua zoo ib yam.