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- Kev khomob pub dawb thiab tus nqi qis
- Nrhiav kev kho dawb lossis them nqi qis
- Muaj ntawv tso cai kws kho mob vs kws pab tswv yim sib yuav
- Cov kws tshaj lij tseem raug cob qhia kom tsis muaj kev ncaj ncees thiab lub hom phiaj
- Lwm qhov sib txawv tseem ceeb yog kev khuv leej
- Txuag Koj Kev Sib Yuav los ntawm kev kho tus nqi qis
Kev sib yuav tseem ceeb, tom qab ntawd ntxiv, yog li nyiaj. Muab qhov kev xaiv ntawm kev khaws koj kev sib raug zoo ua ke thiab them nqi hluav taws xob, neeg feem coob yuav xaiv qhov kawg.
Feem ntau khub niam txiv tso qhov tseem ceeb qis hauv kev kho lawv txoj kev sib yuav.Cov neeg feem coob tseem tsis tau paub tias muaj qee yam tsis raug txhua txog thaum muaj qee yam tshwm sim xws li kev tsis ncaj ncees lossis cov ntawv sib nrauj uas tsis tau xav txog.
Yog tias muaj qhov nruab nrab hauv nruab nrab rau cov tsev neeg uas muaj peev nyiaj siv, ntau tus neeg yuav zoo rau kev kho niam txiv. Kev sab laj tus nqi qis yuav pab tiv thaiv teeb meem los ntawm kev tshuab tawm ntawm qhov feem thiab ua rau peb xaus nrog kev ntxhov siab thiab kev sib nrauj kim.
Kev khomob pub dawb thiab tus nqi qis
Ntau tus kws kho mob muab kev sab laj dawb, tab sis nkag siab tias kev sab laj thiab kev kho mob yog ob yam sib txawv. Thawj qhov yog kuaj mob thiab lwm qhov yog kev kho mob tiag tiag. Yog tias ob niam txiv mob siab txog daws lawv cov teeb meem txij nkawm, lawv yuav tsum ua tiav txoj kev kho mob.
Muaj cov pab pawg sib tham ua phooj ywg-rau-phooj ywg online muaj. Zoo li AA, lawv pab thiab tuaj yeem muab lub qhov hluav taws xob zoo thiab qee qib ntawm kev tsis pub lwm tus paub. Muaj qee qhov xwm txheej uas muaj cov kws tshaj lij nyob hauv kev sib txuas txuas ntxiv lawv pab txhais tes dawb rau kev lag luam lawv tus kheej.
Koj tau txais yam koj them rau, kho online dawb lossis kho FTF tsuas yog qhov kawg ntawm cov dej khov.
Yuav tsis muaj qhov kev tshawb fawb tob los pab koj tiag tiag li ob peb leeg. Yog tias koj tab tom nrhiav kev nplij siab thiab lus qhia, koj tuaj yeem tau txais los ntawm cov neeg nyob ze koj. Yog tias koj tuaj yeem daws koj cov teeb meem los ntawm kev sib txuas lus thiab sib qhia, tom qab ntawd zoo rau koj, rau lwm tus, yam nyuaj dua li nws zoo li.
Kev kho tiag tiag yog ua los ntawm cov kws tshaj lij muaj ntawv tso cai. Peer-to-peer round table tham tsis muaj kev saib xyuas ntawm tus kws kho mob muaj ntawv tso cai tsuas yog pab pawg ua kom pom tseeb. Txawm li cas los xij, tsis muaj ib yam tsis raug nrog qhov ntawd, nws txaus rau qee tus khub niam txiv los daws lawv qhov sib txawv, qee qhov tab sis tsis yog txhua qhov.
Nrhiav kev kho dawb lossis them nqi qis
Kev tshawb fawb hauv Google yuav muab rau koj cov koom haum hauv tebchaws uas pab khub niam txiv suav nrog kev sib yuav.com. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog los ua cov hlua tshawb fawb ntev xws li "kev kho tus nqi qis nyob ze kuv" lossis "kev sab laj pub dawb pub dawb [qhov chaw]" kom tau txais txiaj ntsig zoo dua.
Kuj tseem muaj lub vev xaib sib tham, Reddit xov, thiab Facebook pawg uas ua tib yam. Muaj pab pawg thoob ntiaj teb, pab pawg hauv tebchaws, thiab pab pawg hauv zos. Yog tias koj npaj yuav ua txoj kev kho online nkaus xwb, qhov chaw nyob ntawm pab pawg sib tham tsis muaj teeb meem. Tab sis yog tias koj xav kom muaj kev sib tham tim ntsej tim muag hauv kab, pab pawg hauv zos yog qhov kev xaiv zoo tshaj plaws.
Kev sib tham hauv online feem ntau pheej yig dua li kev sib tham tim ntsej tim muag. Cov kws kho mob them nqi ib teev thiab cov kws tshaj lij muaj peev xwm tuaj yeem them tus nqi siab $ 500 rau thawj qhov kev sab laj thiab $ 100 rau cov sijhawm kho. Muaj ntau qhov chaw xws li New York City uas cov kws tshaj lij kho mob hlwb tau them ntau npaum li 200-300 toj ib teev. Cov kws kho mob hauv online them tus nqi tsawg dua thiab cov kws pab tswv yim pab dawb tsis tau tso cai them tus nqi qis dua.
Feem ntau cov nqi kho mob ob peb zaug yog ua los ntawm cov kws tshaj lij uas tsis muaj ntawv tso cai. Nws tsis txhais hais tias lawv tsis paub lawv tab tom ua dab tsi. Cov neeg feem coob uas coj lawv yog cov neeg txhawb nqa kev sib yuav uas tau dhau los ntawm kev sib yuav pob zeb lawv tus kheej.
Muaj ntawv tso cai kws kho mob vs kws pab tswv yim sib yuav
Muaj qhov sib txawv loj hauv tus nqi. Tab sis lawv ob leeg yuav ua Tus Kheej Lub ntsej muag-Rau-Ntsej Muag, Pab Pawg, lossis Online sib tham thiab them nqi ib teev. Yog li nws yog qhov tseem ceeb los saib cov lus pom zoo.
Cov kws tshaj lij muaj peev xwm tuaj yeem sau tshuaj thiab muaj kev sib txuas nrog tsoomfwv cov koomhaum thaum lawv pom qhov xav tau kev pabcuam. Cov kws pab tswv yim sib yuav yuav tsis tuaj yeem sau tshuaj, lawv tuaj yeem pom zoo rau lwm txoj hauv kev. Cov koom haum loj kuj tseem yuav koom tes nrog tsoomfwv cov koom haum.
Cov kws tshaj lij muaj ntawv tso cai tau ntau xyoo ntawm kev qhia hauv kev xav thiab ua ntu kev kho. Kev kho tus nqi qis nrog tus kws pab tswv yim sib yuav muaj sijhawm tsawg dua hauv kev qhia, ob peb lub rooj sib tham zoo tshaj, thiab tsis muaj kev qhia kiag li yog qhov xwm txheej tsis zoo.
Theoretical thiab cov ntaub ntawv tshawb fawb muaj rau cov kws tshaj lij kuj muab lawv nkag siab tob txog kev sib yuav ntawm ob niam txiv. Kev paub yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws, tab sis nws tsis muaj peev xwm ua rau tib neeg ntsib txhua qhov xwm txheej uas tshwm sim thiab lawv cov peev xwm ua tiav hauv lub neej. Txawm li cas los xij, nws tsis yog qhov tsim nyog rau kev kho kom zoo, tab sis nws pab tau.
Cov kws tshaj lij tseem raug cob qhia kom tsis muaj kev ncaj ncees thiab lub hom phiaj
Muaj cov kws kho mob uas tsis tuaj yeem tuav ntawm lawv tus kheej kev pom ntawm qhov teeb meem tshwj xeeb yog thaum muaj kev sib deev, kev tsim txom hauv tsev, thiab kev tsis ncaj ncees. Txawm li cas los xij, tsis zoo li qhov sib txawv ntawm cov kws kho mob muaj ntawv tso cai thiab tus kws pab tswv yim sib yuav thaum nws los txog rau kev tsis ncaj ncees.
Lwm qhov sib txawv tseem ceeb yog kev khuv leej
Cov kws tshaj lij tau xyaum ua lawv qhov zoo tshaj plaws los ua lub hom phiaj thiab zoo li ntawd. Cov kws pab tswv yim sib yuav, tshwj xeeb yog cov tuaj yeem pab dawb, muaj kev nkag siab zoo rau khub niam txiv thiab lawv tsev neeg. Cov kws pab tswv yim pab dawb tau hla dhau qhov mob lawv tus kheej thiab tuaj yeem cuam tshuam nrog lawv cov neeg siv khoom ntawm qib kev xav.
Yog tias koj tab tom nrhiav phooj ywg thiab kws kho mob. Kev kho tus nqi qis los ntawm cov kws pab tswv yim yog lwm txoj hauv kev zoo. Tab sis yog tias koj tab tom nrhiav kws kho mob thiab kws kho mob hlwb, ces cov kws tshaj lij yog txoj hauv kev mus.
Yog tias koj xav tsis thoob vim li cas kev kho tus nqi qis nrog tus neeg muaj kev nkag siab tsis yog ib txwm muaj kev xaiv zoo dua rau cov kws tshaj lij tau kawm thiab muaj ntawv tso cai. Nws yooj yim, ntau qhov teeb meem kev sib raug zoo yog los ntawm ib tus txij nkawm uas muaj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo.
Cov teeb meem xws li narcissism, teeb meem kev sib deev, lossis tsuas yog vwm-quav vwm. Tus kws kho mob muaj ntawv tso cai yuav tuaj yeem txheeb xyuas cov teeb meem ntawd kom raug, thiab daws qhov teeb meem ntawm tus kheej uas ua rau muaj kev sib raug zoo.
Txuag Koj Kev Sib Yuav los ntawm kev kho tus nqi qis
Ntau khub niam txiv tuaj yeem daws lawv cov teeb meem lawv tus kheej yam tsis muaj kev pab los ntawm kws kho mob. Cov neeg uas mob siab rau nrhiav kev pab, tab sis tsis tuaj yeem them tus nqi ntawm cov kws tshaj lij tuaj yeem nrhiav lwm txoj hauv kev los ntawm pab pawg sib tham, sib tham ua phooj ywg, thiab lwm yam kev tawm tswv yim.
Muaj cov pab pawg uas muab kev sab laj pub dawb thiab tsuas yog thov kom koj them nyiaj rau kev nyeem cov ntaub ntawv txhawm rau ntxiv kev kho mob. Ua koj qhov kev mob siab rau txhawm rau nrhiav tus kws kho mob zoo rau koj ntawm cov peev txheej uas koj xav tau yog tias koj txaus siab lees txais kev sib tham online. Yog tias koj muaj hmoo, tseem tuaj yeem muaj pab pawg txhawb nqa nyob ze koj lossis pib ib qho.